Some people can tolerate loneliness or even enjoy it. They prefer the peace of loneliness to an unhappy union with one. However, there are not a few people who cannot take the burden of loneliness and tend to depression in the face of this situation. Why am I alone? Why don’t I have a proper relationship? Am I not worth having a relationship with? Don’t I deserve a good relationship or a girlfriend? Why don’t I have a girlfriend? questions such as constantly circumvent their minds, and this adds unhappiness to their unhappiness. So what is the reason or causes of this loneliness?
NOT TO TAKE STEP TO THE SIMPLE FLOOR
There may be reasons for this situation such as emotional perfectionism, extreme selflessness, hopelessness, depression. People may be afraid to express their feelings and postpone their feelings to people they like because of at least one of these reasons or whom they see candidate to establish a serious union.
The reasons such as thinking that he / she cannot afford the person he likes, giving someone a chance after getting madly in love and finding him unnecessary, and not being able to fit himself with the person he likes are among the serious reasons for starting a relationship.
THINKING THERE WILL BE COMPREHENSED FROM SELF BY MAKING A FUTURE FOR ANYONE
If I do not have a relationship, I will be much more comfortable and free. There will be no one who is confused and tells me what I have to do, the idea that I will spare all my time for me and that I will not spend my time with a union that consumes me may be a reason to end a possible association with the opposite sex before it starts.